Twin flame [1]
Let me share with you my view on attracting and realizing your twin flame. Bob Marley sang it best with his song No Woman(Man) No Cry. The Law of attraction applies here, that means one is required to let go of any attachements to the idea of a twin flame, since this will produce a disharmonious calling/attraction to the opposite. The first principle is to let go of the idea of the twin flame, subsequently let go of the expression you equate to this belief (Beautiful person of your dreams). Then realize you are the twin flame, unified masculine and feminine desires, into one unified androgynous expression of unconditional love, then you will attract the twin flame physical expression that is the real deal. Then there will be no room for distortions since you both vibrate in an unified aummmmmu.