Most ones -->think<-- (not feel) it is ''right'' to bear resentments against others that they believe, a selfmade belief, have harmed them, that they need to ''hate'' one who hates them, and that they have every justification to feel sorry for themselves, or to worry excessively, or to grieve under many circumstances. Never realizing that not a single positive effect can ever flow from such negative emotional states. None of these emotions does a thing to the ''enemy''<-- illusion, they only bring back and wreak debilitation upon the projector. All lower vibrations/emotions only bring harm to the one harbouring them, none produce any positive result whatsoever. Think less, FEEL more.