Let me share with you my view on attracting and realizing your twin flame. Bob Marley sang it best with his song No Woman(Man) No Cry. The Law of attraction applies here, that means one is required to let go of any attachements to the idea of a twin flame, since this will produce a disharmonious calling/attraction to the opposite. The first principle is to let go of the idea of the twin flame, subsequently let go of the expression you equate to this belief (Beautiful person of your dreams). Then realize you are the twin flame, unified masculine and feminine desires, into one unified androgynous expression of unconditional love, then you will attract the twin flame physical expression that is the real deal. Then there will be no room for distortions since you both vibrate in an unified aummmmmu.
I consider myself a creative optimizer, I am all about ecology and that means to me energy saving. Either by streamlining code and algorithms or streamlining social interactions between individuals and teams. In all relationships there exists binary logic of 1 (yes,accept,agree) and 0( no,reject,disagree), but there is another state that is seldom mentioned that is not absolute, it is living nature and therefore human nature, the state of uncertainty or some may call it maybe. Using this fuzzy logic together and supported by experience through impression and expression of universal principles(virtues) of life, I have discovered an elegant way to program my mind into a binary tree structure which enables me to tune into reality undistorted and act in a fluid unified principled and empowered way, more akin to an organic artificial intelligence. This has been an ongoing personal evolution, that was accelerated by the use and understanding of technology, especially since I got my first MSX computer at 7 years of age.
The binary tree consists of wisdom nodes/(problem solving nodes), which deepen with every relevant binary interaction and every node is built upon higher wisdom nodes, therefore the binary tree structure is ever changing and new nodes are being built while others are deepening, in the same time retaining the binary tree integrity of connections and node positions in the human mind.
Therefore unified cosmic mind is ever more refined and radiant.
