Forget all about control. This place is not for people who control; this place is for people who let their heart dance wherever it wants to dance!
Remember a famous proverb: Talent is what you possess, genius is what possesses you.
You cannot control genius; you can control talents. Here we are creating the possibility for your sleeping genius to be awake. Once your genius is awake, you are going to be possessed, you will not be in control -- and there is no need to be in control. The sky is vast, millions of stars are moving without crashing, and no traffic control! Here I see thousands of hearts dancing, running -- no traffic control! Nature manages itself so perfectly that if you don't disturb, everything goes alright -- and very smoothly.