Channeled by Brenda Hoffman for Life Tapestry Creations.com.

 

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Dear Ones,

You are not alone.  You are surrounded by like-minded Earthlings as well as Universal beings because you are shifting yourself, the Earth, and the Universes.

 

You are more critical to this major transition than most of you realize.

 

Yet, you question many of your thoughts and actions, believing that you are merely of the Earth, as has been accurate throughout your eons of 3D existence.  Even though you have read or heard of the significant changes of the Earth and therefore the Universes, you only half believe in the possibilities.  And if it is true, you want the changes to happen sooner, particularly in your life.

 

Your life seems confusing and disconcerting. 

 

You once knew what you needed to do to become a stellar member of your society.  However, because you are no longer sure what the rules are, you sometimes feel wrong and fearful.  You are experiencing some joys.  But not the sparkling, shimmering joys you have been led to believe would be part of your world by now.  As if the gold coin of this new world is constantly just beyond your grasp.

 

Do not fret.  This phase is not unlike the transition from a 3D childhood to your teenage years.  One moment, you feel right in your world, and the next, confused or wrong.  You are evolving into yourself in ways that we, of the Universes, cannot necessarily describe, any more than your parents could describe puberty to you.

 

Of course, that seems to counter the messages we provided earlier, which stated that you are a new adult.  And so you are.  The difference is that you do not yet fully understand what that means within your beliefs and thought processes. 

 

ThreeD changes involved not only your physical and emotional bodies, but also social rules that allowed you to frame the rightness or wrongness of your actions.  Those frameworks are now different because they are tailored to individual needs. 

 

Unlike your 3D puberty experiences, you have no guidelines other than your inner being.  And since you are just beginning to understand that your directives are internal rather than external, you are confused and hurt.  "I did or said this, so I should be rewarded" has shifted to "I did or said this, so I can reward myself if I feel like doing so."  Rewards and actions are now internal goals and have nothing to do with social shoulds.

 

That difference is confusing because your rewards come from within, rather than being displayed socially, as has been your 3D experience.  So your feelings of right and wrong are very different from what has been true for Earth eons.  

 

You are learning how to reward yourself.  A somewhat confusing process because you have seldom allowed yourself that freedom in 3D.  Even when you felt as if you had said or completed the correct action for the situation, if your internalized 3D social mores informed you that you were bad or wrong, nothing you could say to yourself contradicted those social dictates.  The opposite is now true.  It is difficult for many of you to accept, much less act on, that.  You continue to look for solutions from others that will stroke your ego.  But as most, if not all, of those now close to you are undergoing the same transition, no one is paying much attention to your needs for validation.

 

Allow yourself to know you are not wrong.  Your need for approval will fade as you adjust to your new approach to life.  You are not bad, immature, or a 3D being.  You are merely evolving into yourself as rapidly as possible for your physical, spiritual, and emotional beings.  Allow that to be even if you feel as if you are not being or doing as you should.

 

Then know without a doubt that you are a new being who is changing the trajectory of Earth and the Universes forever. 

 

You are not a slow learner or a new you reject.  You are a glorious new being that sparkles and radiates more light than you can imagine.  You are a miracle.  A miracle who is spreading joy and fun even as you adjust to your new being of unlimited potential.  So be it.  Amen. 

 

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