When you come into the realization of who and what you are, there will still be those in your immediate presence who do not wish to honor your independence. Control of another is the hardest stronghold that some wish to give up. At times, its as simple as " I know better than you so Im gonna FORCE you to do this or that" or my way is better than yours so therefore I am going to take charge of this situation.
This can be in such situations as when you ask someone to bring you something from the store (after they ask do you want anything), whether your paying for it or not, they bring you the kind THEY want YOU to have instead of the kind the know for a fact you prefer. My way is the best way, what do you know attitude. Or, you ask them not to do something and they do it anyway, freak what you said. Control freaks. I too, have been one, so, I understand them. Smile
Yesterday, I almost got upset, but, my Higher Self validated it was a form of LOSING control over another, that was the cause of the situation, and nothing else. And, and, its not fair to use another person to try and control someone, cause it puts the middle person in a situation that they dont deserve to be in. Causing misdirected negative energy. Thank Spirit my Galactic Family educated me to reality. The energy did not transpire because of my teachings.